After years of wondering if I could ever be intimate with another man, I decided to hook up with a dude my freshman year of college. I figured this "bicurious" thing clearly isn't a phase, since I'd been thinking about it for a few years. The only way I could know for sure if I was actually gay or bi was if tested the waters. So I did. Alas, I got so drunk in order to have the courage to hook up with another man that I ended up puking midway through our encounter. After the experience, I could not tell you if I was gay or bi. Overall, the experience was "meh," like any really sloppy, drunken hookup regardless of gender.
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Without going into too many details you can read about my full experience hereI left that first encounter feeling even more unsure of my sexual identity. Neither happened.
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In fact, I came to the conclusion after the experience that I was straight, and it took me another five years of hooking up with men to embrace the fact that I am bisexual. As always, it can be helpful to explore this in the safe space of therapy.
Personally, seeing a therapist was the most helpful thing when it came to exploring and eventually embracing my same-sex attractions. By the end of my third session, I began calling myself bisexual. There's this notion that if you so much as kiss a man once, you must be gay or bisexual.
This makes it particularly scary and seemingly "binding" when you explore. You fear that if you experiment, and don't like it, people will wrongfully assume you're closeted. You fear that rumors surrounding your sexuality will haunt you for the rest of your life, but here's the truth about experimenting: If you come to the conclusion after hooking up with a guy that you're straight, then you are just as straight as a dude who's never experimented.
One sexual act does not define your entire identity. Now if you're someone like me, who comes to realize, oh yeah, I really can get down hooking up with other men, then welcome to the club, my dude.
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It's simply too much for some men to handle. Yet after a quick cursory search of MFM threesome porn on the internet, I can say with confidence that MFM clips have been watd, literally, tens of millions of times.
But for straight-identifying guys, there's still a taboo around the activity: specifically, that you must be secretly gay or bisexual if you want to have a threesome with another man.
Which is kind of ridiculous, considering the same guys watch porn with other men in it all the time. Well, that's not necessarily the case.
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I've had bi MMF threesomes where all of us hook up with each other-notice these are called MMF and not MFM; the two M are together, indicating there's a potential for the guys to hook up, too. No surprise to anyone, but those encounters are undoubtedly queer.
But I've also had MFM threesomes with straight men, where he and I aren't hooking up in any way, shape, or form. Those types of threesomes will be the focus of this piece. You are not the star of the show in a devil's threesome.
Neither is your buddy. It's all about her and her desires.
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